Saturday, June 4, 2011

What the Heck, Universe?!

I've been single for quite awhile now. I've met a few guys here and there, but no guy that is quite good enough, or doesn't want to date a single mom. I kind of got used to it, and I started to accept that I would be single for awhile. I was doing okay. I was busy. I was happy. I was single. And then, about 2 weeks ago, I met a boy. A boy that is perfect in every way. 

He likes kids. 
He likes Parker. 
He is kind and generous. 
He works out on a regular basis, so he is in excellent shape. 
He has an amazing job--he just finished up with medical school and is becoming an Ear Nose and Throat surgeon. 
He can dance. 
He likes the Ducks. 
He and I have a lot of things in common. 
He is extremely smart. 
He is gracious. 
He is gorgeous. 
He is wonderful. 
He is everything I could ever want. 

And he is leaving. 

He got matched to complete his Residency in Michigan, which is a top 3 program. In case you didn't know... residency lasts 6 years.

We went on a date early last week, and I had the most fun I have ever had on a date. It was simple, but it was WONDERFUL. Since then, we have talked a little almost every day. I got to see him last night again, and he invited me to a going away party that his family is throwing for him on Sunday.

Three weeks is NOT enough time. And Michigan is TOO far away! 

What the heck, Universe??! Why, when a guy comes around who is perfect in every way and likes my kid and is okay with me having a kid, does he have to leave?!

This has been the best few weeks, but Wednesday is going to officially suck.